When I joined ADF in the winter of 2012, I had really hit a dead end as far as my personal religion was concerned. Earlier that year, I had attempted to keep a solitary Wiccan practice, with my only guides being the available books I could find on-line or at the bookstore. While I felt it was close to what truly called to me, it wasn’t quite enough. So, upon joining ADF, I was a clean slate for a new religious practice. In fact, that was one of the reasons why I started the Dedicant Path so early, because I wanted to build my religious practice from the ground up. Since there was no grove close to where I lived initially, I started off as a solitary practitioner.
I began on Imbolc of 2013 with my first solitary High Day using the full ADF Core Order of Ritual taken from the Dedicant Path manual. While the ritual was very rough, I enjoyed it immensely. I liked the feeling of the Three Hallows at my shrine, while invoking the Three Realms and Three Kindreds felt natural following that. It’s very hard to articulate, but these elements felt, for like of a better word, “right” to me. When I started reading A History of Pagan Europe by Nigel Pennick and Prudence Jones, I figured out why. Across many of the Indo-European cultures of ancient times, these elements were used in their religious experiences. The use of these symbols and objects in ADF ritual made sense on both an intuitive and historical level. I truly felt at home with a practice that took the best of ancient practice and married them with with modern sensibilities.
Since I was a child, I had always been interested in Norse mythology, and it often flavored my burgeoning spirituality as I grew older. When I joined ADF and began my religious practice, I naturally gravitated toward the Norse hearth culture. In the beginning, I still referred to some of the elements in ADF Druidry in general terms. For instance, I called the Gods the “Shining Ones” and the nature spirits the “land spirits” in my rituals. As time went on, I gradually began replacing the names with terms that were more Norse. The “Shining Ones” became the Gods and Goddesses of the Aesir and Vanir (or “of Asgard,” if I wanted to keep it short), while the “land spirits” became the land wights. While there may be little difference in calling the nature spirits either land wights or land spirits, I felt that was an important piece in developing a more personalized religious experience tailored to my chosen hearth. Now, my High Day rituals include Hallows that fit within Norse cosmology: the Fire of creation, the Sacred Wells at the base of Yggdrasil, and Yggdrasil itself. My Three Realms are invoked by telling the tale of Odin and his brothers slaying the giant Ymir and creating the world, and so on. A personal goal of mine would be to include Old Norse language in my rituals to deepen the connection to the hearth culture.
I’ve touched on my home shrine in the accompanying essay, but I feel it’s important to point out that my home shrine, in many ways, is the physical representation of my evolving religious practice. In the beginning, it was a very basic shrine with the Three Hallows, a bell, a chalice for the blessing cup, and an offering bowl. Now, it holds a host of extra items that have reflected my religious growth. For example, I added an ancestor box on my shrine which holds pictures for those I wish to remember. This particular item was officially placed on my home shrine during my Winternights ritual as my working. I also replaced the chalice with an authentic drinking horn and added representations of the Three Kindreds on my shrine. A picture of Odin I placed on my shrine to represent the Gods began to have more meaning to me as I developed a connection with the All-Father on a more personal basis.
In addition to High Days, the Dedicant Path also helped me develop a firm daily practice through the mental training requirement. What began as 10 minutes of the Complete Breath 5 days a week has turned into a practice that includes an oracle reading for advice from the Kindreds at the beginning of my week, a weekly devotional to the Kindreds, with basic trance, Two Powers meditations, and prayers sprinkled throughout the week. I’m very happy with the weekly work I do, but I feel compelled to do more. There’s a possibility for daily devotionals in the future, as long as I can make it practical for my life schedule. During my mental training studies, I also spent more time out in nature, learning the land while giving offerings and becoming acquainted with the local land wights. I learned many lessons while connecting with the wights, and I seek to use this knowledge to care for the land and continue in right relationship with them.
Over the course of the year, I’ve also worked on incorporating the Nine Virtues into my life. As I started to write the virtue essays for the Dedicant Path, I would reflect on those virtue and think of ways to apply them to everyday life. Since I spend much of my time during the week at work, I would post the Nine Virtues on my desk as a reminder and guide in all decisions that I make. I would even make it a point to recite them from memory, which would increase my awareness of them and help me make better decisions. Now, I think back on situations where I could have applied a virtue for a better outcome and adjust my thinking for future reference. Other times, I look back on situations where I believe I applied the virtue effectively and take satisfaction that I did the right thing.
As noted previously, I began as a solitary, but shortly after beginning my practice I was lucky enough to find another ADF member in my area. Since getting in touch, we’ve been able to meet up on most High Days and hold ritual. While we are not formally recognized as a protogrove, this small group has helped satisfy my need for community, even if there are only three of us at the moment. Even our group practice has evolved over the year we have been meeting. Initially, my friend Beth wrote and led the High Day rituals with a Celtic influence, which was okay because I wished to learn more about the Celtic hearth culture. Now, we split up the High Days in which I lead the equinox and solstice rituals from a Norse perspective, and Beth leads the cross-quarter High Days with Celtic rituals, because being solely responsible for writing eight High Day while being in school and teaching is a lot of work. Not only has it become a learning experience for us all, but it also takes the pressure off Beth. Even with this small group, I still maintain my own solitary practice at home because I feel it’s important to have a close personal connection with my Gods and hearth culture.
The growth in my religious practice has been a wonderful journey, but the most important component is my growth in relationship with the Kindreds and the cosmos. As the Three Hallows sit in the center of my shrine, I have found that the more I invoke their power, the more connected I feel with existence. In the past, when looking up at the stars and experiencing nature, I would often feel awestruck and overwhelmed. Now, as I have connected with these essential elements of the cosmos, I no longer feel so small and insignificant, for I draw them to me in the Sacred Center. Through ritual and devotion, I am closer to the powerful beings that are the Three Kindreds and I have found myself blessed and fulfilled over the course of the year. As I read the tales of the Gods, I grow even closer to them as I know their deeds and become enchanted by their adventures. I have even unexpectedly formed a relationship with Odin and he provides me wisdom and guidance in the runes. It’s a very real possibility that this relationship could turn into one of patronage.
As I have traveled the path of Druidry, having kept the Elder Ways for a full year, I have been fulfilled beyond measure. Druidry has become a large part of my life and I couldn’t imagine my life without it. I have forged a lasting relationship with my environment and the powers at work behind it. It is my intent to continue to walk this path, for it is the path I have been looking for my entire life. The path of the Dedicant has helped me lay the foundation for a solid religious practice, but it is only the beginning, and I look forward to what lies ahead as my religion and spirituality continues to evolve.